first ever blog

I am new to this, but my future wife started one a while back, and I think it's pretty cool. I'm not sure who will read it, but I'm going to write one anyway. There are 11 days until I get married, which is crazy to even think about. I'm so excited about starting my life with Kacey and being a great husband to her. But, I'm terrified at the same time. I guess, because for so long, it's just been me. I've never had to protect and comfort and worry too much about anyone else. Sure, I've done those things but, not to the extent of marriage. Now, Kacey will rely on me for support, love, leadership, and a host of other things. While I feel like I'm up to the task, there is something about taking that plunge that is nerve racking. I've never been a nervous person. I've never been the type of person to worry about things. I've always been a go with the flow type of person. But, recently I have been unable to sleep well. Which I've never struggled with. I think it has a lot to do with changing jobs and trying to find something for Kacey. Also we have to move, not to mention actually getting married and singing at the wedding. Getting all that stuff right, and still maintaining a smile the whole day. Not to mention the two weeks I have to spend at a seminar immediately after the wedding. So, no real honeymoon for us. So needless to say, our first month or so as newlyweds, is going to be rather hectic. I guess that's a precursor for REAL LIFE!!!

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  1. KaceyBeeJune 25, 2009 at 4:38 AM

    haha, so you admit you were nervous! you did great at the wedding and you are going to be an amazing husband! love you!

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